Taking stock
Three things which I value most in my life are three quite different things, but still they are connected like no other. The first thing is life itself, because without life I would not be sitting here and writing about things which are important to me. Another thing is my family, which I cherish more than anything in my life. The third and final thing is love, and the longing for love.
To develop my thoughts further about my first opinion, I believe life is given to us as the biggest present ever, and not to cherish this and make the best of it is quite frankly stupid. I try to make the best of every moment in life and not to take it too seriously, always trying to have a smile on my face and to appreciate every day of it. Life is something you have to enjoy and live out fully. Life is so beautiful and simple, but yet so difficult and complex. Simple because you have not done anything, or achieved anything before life is given to you. All you have to do is to live it, simpler said than done, it is here were the complexity begins. To live your life you are ought to do many things, which you cannot control, such as learning how to walk, talk, eat, read and write just to name a couple of them.
Just like any other person on this planet or animal if you like, I can thank my parents for being here, and this takes us to my family. My family consists of my mother and father, and my two older brothers. The special relationships in a well functioning family are very joyful. The continuous feeling of being able to give or receive without having to give anything in return is inexplicable. The close bonds between two brothers or sisters are like no other. To have it in the back of your mind that your brother would risk his life for you and you for him gives a great feeling to your confidence. I read this a statement in a book, which said a mother’s biggest task is to give her child unconditional love without demanding anything in return. That is what I call true love.
Having talked about family brings us to love. Hopefully one day in the future I will find the love of my life. It takes no time to fall in love but it takes years to know what love is. Having love brings a special feeling to life and everything seems so much easier and better for God knows what reason. But what connects love to family is that one day I hope I will have some Arin Juniors running around, terrorizing the streets. Once you have felt love you have the craving for it, it can be described by me as the worst drug ever. Another description for love is; it is like surfing, and the girls are like the waves. Sometimes there are many, sometimes not. And time after time you try to get up on the board and catch one of them. Once you are up on that board and riding the waves, you have found love,
but just as any other thing you can fall of the board, and get really hurt.
To sum up these three things which connect in different ways. Life is given to you and try to make the best of it. Life is given to you by your parents, and therefore means family everything to me. I would like to walk in my parents’ footsteps and find that special one and settle down one day in the future and live the rest of my life with her and love her every single day of my life.
måndag 12 mars 2007
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